A step by step Hajj and 'Umrah:
Once he sets out to the Holy lands, he and his companions should obey the Amir (chief) which they have elected. They should show full cooperation and compassion for one another. The pilgrim should put himself at the service of his companions. He should show selfless and humble devotion to his companions. He should ask Allah's Forgiveness for himself and for his companions. The pilgrims should preoccupy themselves with the remembrance of Allah, the Most High, the recitation of Qur'an, and imploring Allah to shower His blessing on Muhammad (P.B.U.H.). They should shield their hearts against holding grudges against others and shield their tongues against backbiting and slander. They should preoccupy themselves with worship and good deeds which benefit others and for which they will be rewarded. If the time of prayer begins while they are on the road, they should stop to pray Dhuhr in combination with Asr or delay Dhuhr and pray it in combination with Asr at the time of Asr prayer. The same rule applies to Maghrib and Isha prayers. They should combine and shorten the prayers e.g. they should pray two rak'at instead of four rak'at. They should exert their utmost to help the weak e.g. women, children and elderly. They should elect a woman to be in charge of a group of women, taking care of them and informing the Amir (chief) about their demands. They should stop for rest every four to six hours in a suitable place. They should prepare a place for men and another for women so that they may make themselves comfortable and take off their veils freely. It is of the utmost importance that they choose a convenient place for male and female pilgrims travelling together e.g. the Muhrims of women. The chief should not yield to the cruelty of some of the drivers who ignore the needs of their passengers and refuse to stop for rest, driving for long hours and torturing their passengers, particularly women and girls who usually shy away from expressing their need for rest or to use the toilet.
I have often heard the complaints of women who suffered the aftermath of nonstop journey. They often arrived to the Holy lands with feet too swollen walk. Some of the elderly men cannot control themselves and urinate on themselves as a result of extreme exhaustion. I feel ashamed to mention some of the ordeals that the travelling pilgrims often go through when they fall victim to cruel drivers and senseless personnel who only care about reaching their destination as quickly as possible. In the process they forget about mercy, compassion, religion and humanity. I feel ashamed to mention the aftermath of this senseless cruelty but, strangely enough, the cruel drivers and the senseless people in charge of these of this journey do not feel ashamed to admit that they actually happened. They should reflect on the Hadith: 'Allah is Merciful to those who are merciful to others'. Travelling unravels the secrets of human nature. In it, everyone shows his true colors.
The pilgrim should keep in mind that he set out on the journey of pilgrimage in obedience for Allah, leaving behind comfort, luxury and pleasure. He should be certain that his reward will be in proportion to his endurance of the rites and restrictions of Hajj. He should show the utmost selflessness, self-denial, and human compassion. He should think about others and try to give up some of his needs for their sake. He should adapt himself to sleep anywhere and eat anything. He should be fully aware that he is about to change his entire lifestyle. He should be ready to sleep on the ground or hard cloth. He should expect to suffer stifling heat and chilling cold. He should expect a change in the time of his daily meals. He might eat earlier or later than he is in the habit of. He might find a cup of tea or coffee and he might not. He might find someone to help and serve him and he might not. He should expect the worse and should not upset others with his complaints, obscene language and grievances. I warn pilgrims against these slips because I have seen people who return home worse than they were before. Both their sins and enemies increased. Their only achievement was their success to breed animosity with others and force people to shun their company. In this respect the Prophet (P.B.U.H.) said: The worst people in Allah's sight on the Day of Resurrection will be those whom the people leave undisturbed to be away from their evil deeds
The pilgrim who is left undisturbed so that his companions will have peace of mind did not perform Hajj and 'Umrah as a sign of submission and obedience to Allah but as a sign of hypocrisy, showing off and pride. We ask Allah's Forgiveness and security from such fate. As soon as the pilgrim reaches the Miqat, he should clip his moustache, nails and hair short. He should perform Ghusl (complete ablution) or Wudu' (ablution). He should wear Teab and put on the Ihram garb. Then, he should pray two rak'at and declare the state of Ihram for 'Umrah, Hajj or both as we have explained in detail. Ihram is an integral part of Hajj, without which one's Hajj is invalid. One should declare the state of Ihram from the Miqat. The fact that he did not declare the state of Ihram at the Miqat does not invalidate Ihram. Talbyah is essential to Ihram. The pilgrim should raise his voice with Talbyah when he climbs up or down hill or when he passes by a group of pilgrims or a pilgrim. It is lawful to raise his voice with Talbyah if he sees a strange thing. He should say Talbyah at dawn and after every prayer.
The Muhrim should shun the disliked and forbidden things. When entering Mecca, it is preferred that a Muhrim performs Ghusl (complete ablution). It is also preferred that he enters from its high side. Then he should go to the Sacred Mosque and enter it from the gate called Bab As-Salam, while uttering supplications of entry into mosques. On seeing the Ka'bah, he should raise his hands and supplicate to Allah the prescribed supplications. Then he should proceed directly to the Black Stone, kiss it quietly or touch it with his hand and kiss the hand. If this is not possible, he may point toward it from a distance. He should stand near it and utter the prescribed supplications. After this he should begin his Tawaf (Circumambulation) around the Ka'bah with the intention of performing 'Umrah or the Arrival Circumambulation as we have explained in detail. It is preferred that he uncovers his right shoulder and jogs in the first three rounds. In the remaining rounds, he may walk at a normal pace. It is a Sunnah that he touches two Corners: the Yemeni Corner and the Black Stone. He should touch the Yemeni corner and kiss the Black stone in every round, if possible. After completing seven rounds, he should go to the station of Ibrahim in compliance with the Command of Allah: 'And take Ibrahim's place of worship as your place of worship'. There, he should pray two rak'at of Tawaf. If the crowds prevented him from praying at the station of Ibrahim, he may pray anywhere inside or outside the mosque. Then he should go to the well of Zamzam and drink of its water as much as possible. After this he should approach As-Safa gate to begin his Sa'i in compliance with Allah's saying: Indeed Safa and Marwah are among the religious ceremonies of pilgrimage ordained by God.